Finding Me: A Memoir by Viola Davis
Finding Me: A Memoir by Viola Davis

Memoir · 2022

Finding Me: A Memoir review

by Viola Davis

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The verdict

Finding Me is Viola Davis's account of her childhood in extreme poverty in Central Falls, Rhode Island, and her path from that starting point to becoming one of the most decorated actors in the history of American theater and film.

Best for readers who want a personal story, not a how-to. Reading time: 5h 45m.

Finding Me: A Memoir by Viola Davis
Finding Me: A Memoir by Viola Davis

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What it argues

Finding Me is Viola Davis's account of her childhood in extreme poverty in Central Falls, Rhode Island, and her path from that starting point to becoming one of the most decorated actors in the history of American theater and film. Davis won the EGOT — Emmy, Grammy, Oscar, and Tony — in 2023, making her one of the few people to achieve all four. The book is not primarily about those achievements. It is about what she came from and what it cost to survive it.

Davis grew up in a house with no heat, food insecurity, and regular exposure to violence, drug use, and the chaos that poverty produces in a family. Her father was intermittently violent; her mother fought to keep the family together under conditions most readers will not have experienced firsthand. Davis writes about her childhood without sentimentality and without the retrospective neatness that memoirs often impose on difficult material. The shame of poverty — its smell, its visibility to other children, the specific humiliations of not having what everyone else has — is described with unusual precision.

What it gets right

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    Davis grew up in conditions of genuine poverty — no heat, food insecurity, a dangerous home environment — in ways that shaped her psychology and her work for decades.

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    The book distinguishes between surviving poverty and healing from it. Davis's career success did not automatically resolve the shame and fear that extreme poverty installs in childhood.

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    Her Juilliard training is presented as transformative but also as a collision between institutional expectations and her own background. The theater world she entered was not built for people who came from where she came from.

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Who wrote it

Viola Davis is an American actress and producer who has won Academy Award, Emmy, Grammy, and Tony awards, making her one of the few EGOT recipients in history. She grew up in Central Falls, Rhode Island, and trained at the Juilliard School. Her notable roles include Annalisa Keating in How to Get Away with Murder, for which she won the Emmy, and Ma Rainey in Ma Rainey's Black Bottom, for which she received an Oscar nomination. She and her husband Julius Tennon co-founded JuVee Productions. Finding Me is her first book.

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