The Lonely City: Adventures in the Art of Being Alone by Olivia Laing

Memoir · 2016

The Lonely City: Adventures in the Art of Being Alone review

by Olivia Laing

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The verdict

The Lonely City is Olivia Laing's memoir-essay hybrid about a period of acute loneliness she experienced after moving to New York City following the collapse of a relationship.

Best for readers who want a personal story, not a how-to. Reading time: 5h 15m.

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What it argues

The Lonely City is Olivia Laing's memoir-essay hybrid about a period of acute loneliness she experienced after moving to New York City following the collapse of a relationship. Rather than treating loneliness as a private failure to be overcome, Laing treats it as a condition worth investigating — historically, aesthetically, and politically. The book is structured around artists who were themselves profoundly alone: Edward Hopper, Andy Warhol, Henry Darger, David Wojnarowicz. Their work becomes both subject and method.

Laing writes about Hopper's paintings as documents of urban disconnection — the figures in diners and hotel rooms who seem sealed off from one another even when sharing a frame. She traces Warhol's defensive use of the machine and the crowd, his terror of intimacy alongside his desperate need for it. With Darger, who died leaving thousands of pages of illustrated fantasy no one knew existed, she explores the most extreme form of loneliness: a rich interior life no one witnessed. Wojnarowicz's rage at AIDS-era invisibility becomes a chapter on how loneliness and political abandonment interlock.

What it gets right

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    Loneliness is not a personal failure but a widespread, politically shaped experience — cities designed around cars and commerce structurally produce it.

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    Edward Hopper's paintings are among the most honest documents of urban disconnection ever made — figures near each other but sealed away.

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    Andy Warhol's obsession with celebrity and surfaces was partly a defensive response to a childhood of isolation and a body he experienced as alien.

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Who wrote it

Olivia Laing is a British writer and critic whose work moves between memoir, cultural criticism, and art writing. Her other books include The Trip to Echo Spring, about writers and alcoholism, and Crudo, a novel written in real time during the summer of 2017. She is a regular contributor to The Guardian, Frieze, and The New Statesman, and has written extensively on art, literature, and the politics of the body. The Lonely City won the Gordon Burn Prize and was shortlisted for multiple awards. She lives in Suffolk.

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