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What it argues
Don Tillman is a genetics professor who has never quite understood why other people find him odd. He has rigid routines, a rotating meal schedule, and a talent for optimizing almost everything — except his social life. Convinced that a scientific approach will solve the problem of finding a wife, he designs the Wife Project: a detailed questionnaire that will weed out incompatible candidates and deliver a maximally suitable partner. What he could not have anticipated is Rosie Jarman, who fails every one of his criteria and yet keeps appearing in his life.
The book is a comedy about what happens when someone with what is heavily implied to be undiagnosed autism — Don is never labeled in the text — tries to solve a human problem with the tools that have served him everywhere else. But it is also something more serious: a novel about how rigid self-knowledge can be both a superpower and a blindspot. Don's precision and honesty are genuinely useful, and Simsion treats them as such rather than simply mocking them. The tension is between the life Don has designed around his nature and the life he might have if he let the design loosen.
What it gets right
- 1.
Don's failure mode — treating every problem as an optimization exercise — is also what makes him effective at his job and honest in his relationships.
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The novel argues, gently, that social fluency is a skill built on convention rather than substance; Don repeatedly exposes how arbitrary many conventions are.
- 3.
Rosie is not a manic-pixie figure. She has her own reasons for spending time with Don, and they are not flattering to her in the early going.
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Who wrote it
Graeme Simsion is an Australian novelist and former IT consultant. The Rosie Project began as a screenplay before Simsion converted it to a novel; it won the Australian Vogel's Literary Award in 2012 before becoming an international bestseller. He followed it with two sequels, The Rosie Effect and The Rosie Result, continuing Don and Rosie's story into marriage and parenthood. Simsion has spoken openly about drawing on research into autism and Asperger's syndrome to shape Don's character, while deliberately leaving the character undiagnosed.
